It’s not wrong for a guy or lady to tell you how long they’d like to date or court before marriage.
It’s not a sign of desperation for a mature adult to have a plan or timeline for their relationship.
When you meet someone, it’s okay to talk about what you want and see if your goals align.
That’s not desperation.
It is called intentionality.
Avoid any “Let’s see how it goes” kind of relationship.
Relationship without goals can end up going nowhere.
And if you set a time frame for your relationship, be sure you follow through on it if all goes well.
I’m rooting for you