The fact that someone rejected you does not mean you’re not good enough or something is wrong with you. It is perfectly okay for people to reject you. It is okay for someone not to love you. It is okay for someone not to find you attractive. It is okay for someone not to marry …
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If you’re thinking and hoping God will punish your ex, think again. My sister my brother, calm down. Heartbreak can make you say all kinds of things in your mind. You’ll be praying prayers like, “God, deal with him.” “God, show her pepper.” “God, let them regret what they did to me.” But let me …
Sometimes in counseling sessions, I sit and listen as some sisters share their frustrations. They say the only men approaching them are unbelievers or married men. The serious, God-fearing single men are not coming. And they wonder if something is wrong with them. My sister, the kind of men approaching you does not automatically define …
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My dear sisters, if a guy travels down to meet you for the first time, be kind enough to cover the date expenses. This brother has already spent how many thousands (in some cases) on transportation, so why burden him with foods, snacks and drinks too? Achalugo, be kind. Don’t keel him. I’m yet to …
My husband showed me a video of a man who said his greatest regret was getting married at 40.He said if he knew better, he would have gotten married early. His advice to every young man is to marry at most by 30.If you ask bro Timo why he’s still single, you’ll hear ‘I don’t …
Apostle Femi Lazarus said that if you’ve been out of a romantic relationship for some time, you’re strong. And that’s true! Not everyone can stay sane without hearing ‘I love you’ from someone every week or two. Some people are so addicted to love that they can’t survive without a relationship for even a week! …
You will find your kind. It’s only a matter of time. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t share your values and goals. Don’t settle for someone you don’t love. Don’t settle for someone you can’t trust to follow God. Don’t settle for someone you don’t enjoy friendship with. Wait. Your woman of God is coming. …
It’s not wrong for a guy or lady to tell you how long they’d like to date or court before marriage. It’s not a sign of desperation for a mature adult to have a plan or timeline for their relationship. When you meet someone, it’s okay to talk about what you want and see if …
If you desire to be married in six months or one year for example, you do not have any business with someone who is not dreaming marriage in three years. Every now and then, I get DMs from different people on this matter. One person is ready but the other person isn’t. A question to …
Sistas, just because you’re taken won’t stop other guys from asking you out. I know a guy who would always say that even if the lady he’s interested in is getting married soon, he won’t stop pursuing her until she eventually gets married. Lol. You may also find yourself getting attracted to other guys and …
