Work on yourself such that when an opposite sex comes into your life, he/she is not stressed. They are blessed knowing you and happy to be in a relationship with you.
I consider it unfair when two people are in a relationship and one of them is suffering for the other person’s negligence and immaturity.
Some people have been in a relationship for two years, two years of stress and trying to babysit the other person. Teaching him/her what to do and how to do it everytime.
Though subtle, these are stuff that stresses people in their relationship. I expect an adult to have attained a certain level of growth and maturity before going into a relationship.
Relationship can wait. Work on yourself, mature. No one prays to find themselves in a stressful relationship. It drains! Spiritually, physically and emotionally.
Be an added blessing, not a burden.