It is true that opposites attract, but that opinion is relative. If as a Christian guy, all the ladies you’re attracted to are unbelievers, there is a problem. If as a Christian lady, all the guys coming to ask you out are unbelievers, it is not well.
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Personally, I may advise you to go on a retreat if you always attract or attracted to unbelievers for a relationship. It shows something is wrong somewhere in your Christian life. I’m not talking about spiritual battles, it could be an attitude, a part of your lifestyle that makes unbelievers think you’re one of them.
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As Christians, we need to be thoroughly purged!
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Dressing indecently can attract unbelievers to you, Sis. They just sincerely think you’re not a Jesus baby. Your cleavages are well advertised. Your makeup is like a shining light in darkness. From afar, your lipstick shines brighter. No moderation. You don’t appear different from ladies who are yet to be born again.
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Those bad guys just think you’re one of them and they come to ask you out. You can’t be addressed better than you are dressed. Queens don’t walk naked. We are royalty! We are well covered. Radiating God’s glory. Decently arrayed. Our beauty is conveyed with virtuousness. Laced with wisdom. Displayed in modesty.
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Brother, you don’t ever find an attraction with decent ladies. Even though you’re a worker in your church, you want it wild. If it’s not, it’s not for you. You prefer ladies who have different experiences and exposures to a Christian lady who wants to do her relationship God’s way. You prefer to date/court an unbeliever so you’re free to explore her body.
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You are not woke my brother. That is not wokeness, your desires have simply gone wild. You need to seek God’s help. Like a clay in the hand of the potter, let Him remould you. Submit yourself for divine prunings. Light and darkness have nothing in common. “Don’t team up with unbelievers……..How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?” 2 Corinthians 6:14-15
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Selah.
