Dear singles, be careful of putting out a fleece for direction. “Lord, if he is the one, let him call me by 12pm. If she’s the one, let her chat me up by 8pm.” Sis, he can call by 12pm and he’s not the one. #selah Sometimes, this is how you cooperate with the devil …
Dear waiting singles, by the time you get married, you’d find out that there’s more to life than marriage relationship. Marriage isn’t all there’s to your life. #selah Bro, a woman isn’t all you need. Sis, a man isn’t all you need. You need to live! Postponing what you should be doing now until you’re …
Dear singles, allow people be themselves when meeting you for the first time. They should be comfortable around you. As long as it’s not weird or offensive, they’re free to be themselves. A sensible person knows how well to behave. You should stop making a guy/lady put up an act just to impress you. You …
I facilitate a monthly program where newlyweds come to share the testimony of how they met their spouse and their journey from courtship into marriage. We’ve had 26 editions and one major thing I’ve observed is how that each of their stories are different. The way sister A met her husband is completely different from …
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I do not like to see relationships fail. Sometimes I stay awake into the night counselling dating/courting couples. When everyone is asleep, I’m there trying to rescue a relationship. I’m happy doing it though. But it cuts my heart when all efforts two people have been putting into their relationship goes down the drain because …
On a Saturday like this, everyone will be around you rejoicing with you. We will take ‘picsures’, we will eat jollof rice. We will dance, we may even spray you money and give gifts. You will feel like the happiest person in the world. All eyes and attention on you. Such a good feeling. Few …
Dear ladies, some men are not interested in your growth or who you become. They only want to use you to pursue and fulfill their own purpose. So when you marry someone like that, their energy is more on fulfiling their own purpose while your own purpose lie dormant. You will be cooking and washing …
There are lots of reasons why relationships fail but let me share some of it with you. 📌It is not God’s Will When God wants to have mercy on you and reroute your path into His plan for your life, He may decide to end your relationship if it’s a wrong one. Some breakups have …
📌Conviction📌Direction📌Attraction You see these three things? Dear singles, take them seriously. They’re prerequisites for a good and Godly relationship. If you’re not convinced about a person, you’re not heading the same direction, you do not have any sort of attraction for him/her, you do not like anything about him/her, please go and wait some more. …
Work on yourself such that when an opposite sex comes into your life, he/she is not stressed. They are blessed knowing you and happy to be in a relationship with you. I consider it unfair when two people are in a relationship and one of them is suffering for the other person’s negligence and immaturity. …
